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Review #005: By Jobber3333 on 5/7/2013

My sessions typically fall somewhere in between competative and semi-competative depending on how the lady feels about wrestling after we get acquainted. Ruby is not a trained wrestler at this point but I found her to be a very game and challenging opponent. She was very receptive to working on some basic moves and proved to be a quick and enthusiastic learner. Once we started wrestling, I found her to be maybe a little tougher opponent than Kristi Etzold but easier than Raquel ( the Seattle one ). And if you are familiar with the classic Star Trek Episode, A Piece of the Action... I left one of my submission wrestling training books with her....
I highly recommend Ruby.

Review #004: By Reading is Sexy via email
Kitten with a whip. Ruby has that delightful combination of youth, enthusiasm and good looks along w/ an incredibly perverted mind and a deliciously delightful sadistic streak. While only 21, she displays an experience and skill far beyond her years. Ruby is intelligent, charming and very, very sexy. She’s professional, communicates clearly, and once the scene starts, she’s very imaginative and spontaneous, keeping a good sub on his toes. Definitely worth the time. 

Review #003: By bigslave55 on 7/29/12
i had an amazing session with ruby today i wont go into to much detail but she was nothing short of perfect beautiful twisted suprising everything i look for in a domme i look foward to many more sessions and fun with her best day ive ever had

Review #002: by Donjuan on 7/13/12
I had the pleasure to spend some time with Ruby on Tuesday, and all I can say is "Wow, fucken wow!"  When I called prior to meeting, she was real clear that there would be no blowjobs or sex of any sort.  We had a bunch of fun anyways, and she never mentioned time.  She likes us to dictate pace, and is funny, laughs, and is real at ease.  She's willing to teach ya a few things too.  I would definitely see Ruby again, and her pictures are of her. 

Review #001: by Otis on 7/17/2012
LOCATION: Bellevue 
DATE: July 16, 2012 
NAME: Ruby Enraylls 
INCALL/OUTCALL: in 
INCALL CLEANLINESS: clean and cozy 
AGENCY OR INDY: indy 
ACCURATE PICTURE: yes 
PERSONALITY: very friendly, intelligent 
RACE: seemed white 
BODY TYPE: athletic 
FEET: well groomed and yummy 
TATTOOS: classy 
PIERCINGS: yes, again classy; especially liked the nipple piercings 
CLOTHES: sexy 
GLASSES: yes 
MOANS OR OTHER SOUNDS?: giggles 
ENERGY LEVEL DISPLAYED: high 
FRENCH: no 
GREEK: no 
RUSSIAN: maybe? 
DONTs: won't fuck or blow you 
RECOMMEND: yes, if you have kink  
REPEAT: (do you intend to see provider again?) yes 

COMMENTS: When I read Ruby’s initial ad in “Seattle Fetish”, I knew I wanted to meet her and try her unique offerings. I waiting a few days to contact her because I’m trying wean myself from seeing new providers. Okay my will power broke down and I contacted Ruby for a day-of appointment. She accommodated my request and we met at her in call within 2 hours. Ruby’s ad photos are steaming hot, but to see her in person is a step beyond. I would simply say she is tall, sexy and exudes kinkiness. Any nervousness or apprehension I had quickly dissipated. Ruby was a pleasure to converse with and very intelligent. Also she’s a geek. With my engineering background she seemed to out-geek me. We had a lot of common interests, like photography and computer programming. I could have chatted with her all night.

 Okay so let’s get down to business. Ruby’s first question to me was, “what is your kink”. It seems that whatever it was, I was going to get some right then! I told her I liked nipple torture (on me) and have a bit of a foot fetish. I also told her of my new favorite sexual activity, which I discovered with my ATF. Of course this involves skin to skin contact which Ruby doesn’t offer, but I told her about it anyway. She seemed excited about my other kinks though. We kissed and snuggled naked on her bed for a brief time, and then she brought out the nipple torture devices. She began torturing my nipples and I began masturbating. I had my eyes closed, then noticed her foot rubbing my face, especially my lips. I proceeded with some intense foot worship. Ruby then slid down and touched me with her feet. Very hot! She slid back up so I could worship her other foot. She giggled as I must have been quite the sight.

 Afterward we watched some of Ruby’s porn. One video in which she’s strapped to this bondage apparatus and being cunt fucked with this mechanical “fuck machine”. The guy with her was stimulating her clit with a magic wand. This went on and on until Ruby needed her wrists unclamped as they were getting numb. I loved watching this video and told her I’d like to try these devices on me. We chatted about other kink we could try in future sessions. It seems the sky‘s the limit with Ruby.

The Ultimate Submissive Relationship

The following is a write up I asked of one of my long distance submissives. This write up is about what his idea of the perfect dominant/submissive looks like and what submission means for him.

I have always thought of submission as the ultimate gift to a Dominant partner. The biggest fear is that the Dominant will not view this gift to be as special as the person giving it. I think it's very important to be treated well as a sub. If I feel special to a Dominant I will move mountains for them. I also think it is up to the sub to relinquish all control to the Dominant with trust they are making decisions in your best interest whether you agree with them or not. If these two parts are present in a relationship the sky is the limit. In my own situation I finally feel I have someone I trust enough to give my gift of submission to. She makes me want to be a better person, a better husband, and a better father. I love to do everything she ask and more because I know it makes her feel special. The things I would like to do in the future are encourage her to take more and more control. The more she controls me the more I know how much I mean to her. The great thing is she praises me doing things well which is as good as foreplay to my submissive nature. I would like for here to chastise me at some point not because I need it for temptations of other women but as a way to remind me constantly who owns my heart, body, and soul. Also maybe some day we could use spanking as a way to establish a corrective action. Sexually she dominates me already by initiating sex which I totally am into. I think I am very close to where I want to be but the chastity and spanking would be such a great addition to our relationship. Some of my friends say I am pussywhipped and I say YES I am end of conversation. I have no problem admitting that she wears the pants in the relationship. Most men do not understand that it is a privilege to be pussywhipped. This means someone cares enough about you to invest time into your development into a better person. To me dominance means love. Dominance is a tool to shape you what they want you to become. If you trust that person enough they will improve you. I cant explain enough what a gift I have received from Miss Ruby to be able to talk about my desires and how to make them happen. Her guidance and firm hand have paved the way to happiness for me. I hope she realizes how treasured my time with her is. She is the best marriage councilor in the world. I cannot wait to  achieve new levels of submission to my wife with her help. YES I am pussywhipped and love it!

A Lucky Boy

The following is a paragraph from a short story that I asked my new house boy to write after having met me. I enjoyed reading it so much that I thought I would share it with everyone. :)

It could be pheromones, it could be that she’s fucking gorgeous, it could be her natural presence of a strong and successful woman who knows what she wants and how to get it or, maybe it’s all of those and more rolled into one irresistible package. What I do know, is the moment Miss Ruby walked into that café I didn’t care one single bit about anyone else seated nearby or around. Usually, I’m always conscious of my surroundings. I scan the people sitting all around me, the people coming and going but fuck them, fuck the waitress, fuck the people walking by on the street, I had Miss Ruby sitting in front of me. She was intoxicating, like in the old movies where the beautiful female singer is strolling down the staircase and singing in some dark and sultry voice, all eyes are on her and everyone wants to be the lucky one. She was dressed sexy, not trashy or underdressed or trying to wear something she wasn’t comfortable in but dressed like she knew what she was doing and was confident about what she was walking around in. She had the most amazing smile which draws you in and makes you want to smile and all encompassed in these beautiful full lips that she has. Lips that make you want to beg for a kiss right then and there even though you know that you don’t deserve that kiss. She was intelligent, knew how to convey her thoughts and actually had thoughts to convey and they all made me think. It’s a real blessing to be with someone who makes you think, even when you don’t want to or about things that you don’t want to. Someone who can stroke your mind is a thousand times more irresistible than someone who can stroke your cock. She had insights into life that made me look at things a different way and had a truly believable caring quality about her. And yes, this was all before we had even ordered food. Miss Ruby was a dominant woman that I wanted to serve. When we did get food, she placed some of hers on a fork and fed it to me, it felt oddly perfect and I took what she offered to me as something sacred, like I was the luckiest boy on the planet to get to have a bite of what was on her plate. I may have been smiling the entire time I first met Miss Ruby.

Who knows, maybe all of you will be lucky enough to read the rest.

Seeking a Submissive

Up until very, very recently I had allowed a boy who started seeing me professionally to connect with me on a more personal basis and I was about to collar him as my submissive. That being said, you may have noticed that I am talking about this person in past tense which is because he violated my trust in a way that shook our friendship down to its core and I'm not sure if it's repairable. Fortunately, some good has come out of this situation. Namely that I remembered how nice it was having a dedicated submissive.

Keeping in mind that I may be opening the flood gates to about a billion emails, I've nonetheless decided to start accepting applications for a submissive.

Qualities that are important to me: Honesty, reliability, good listening skills, obedient, actually submissive (not "thinking about it", "generally dominant" or a top from the bottom), not selfish, generally driven to accomplish things and meet goals, willingness to be molded by me

Any of these are bonuses but not requirements: Being willing to experiment with new toys, providing good foot massages, being a handy man, having disposal income, being a good cook

Deal Breakers: Under achievers, inability to follow directions, liars, people with criminal history.


Please copy the following questions, answer them and email the results to rubyenraylls@gmail.com

Name:
Age:
Gender:
Occupation:
Education Level:
Experience Level with BDSM/Kink:
5 qualities other people tell you that you embody:
5 things you wish you could change about yourself:
5 things that are important you:
5 special skills that you possess:
Your ideal relationship:
Your idea of being successful:
What you wanted to grow up to be:
How you want your life to be in 5 years:


Looking forward to hearing from you.

The Finer Points of Being Stalked

When I first discovered creepy emails in my inbox that talked about the location of my dungeon I was kind of freaked out. I don't like people getting information about me without asking me, even meaningless shit like what my favorite color is. I've never liked people talking about me behind my back, regardless of the content of the conversation and I've worked hard to accept that people will do that and that most of the time they won't tell me about it. So naturally, finding out that people were digging up any scraps of information on me that seemed relevant at all, creeping on me in various ways and making up extravagant lies about cumming all over my face is at the very least a little wiggy.
But to be honest... It's also kind of flattering.

People I've never met want to know things about me. People who I've never spoken to and have no connect to are telling other people that they fucked me. People I literally don't give a shit about are doing things to get my attention or broadcast the fact that they know me. That's what crazy people do to celebrities! THAT'S FUCKING. COOL. By the transitive property that must mean that I'm some sort of small scale celebrity.

Seriously, think about it; I have directly done absolutely nothing to, with or for these people and they're spending time and effort to find shit out about me. Once you get past the whole "Ew, why would you do that? That's creepy!" thing generating enough buzz and attention that people are seeking you out (sometimes against your will) is in many ways a sign that you're becoming successful.

"But, Mistress!" You might say "How is violating your privacy anything but a massive disregard for your basic human rights?" Well my pet.. Although it is that, people who generally do things like that and use fear tactics to make someone feel like they're in danger are attempting to force control over you. It's non-consensual D/s. If I'm afraid of anonymous dude A, then he has power over me and then he has a reason to feel powerful. The fact that he's trying to scare me (someone he doesn't have a connection with) into submission says to me that he considers me to be powerful or maybe I even emasculated him. Either way, he has set the tone that I am more powerful than him and he is trying to change that by making me fear for my safety. Unfortunately for him, power only comes from within and taking power away from someone else never makes you feel stronger.

So now that I've broken down why I feel flattered, let's break down why I'm not really concerned by all of this because, let's be honest, that's not a normal human response.

Ideally in the animal kingdom, when one creature threatens another it triggers the fight or flight response which in this day and age means that whoever is fight or flighting is FREAKING THE FUCK OUT. The thing is... Most threats aren't even acted on. Worst case scenario, some dude shows up at my dungeon (or maybe my home if he's crafty enough) and worst worst case scenario is that he tries to hurt me. .... Well then. That should be cause for concern, right? Let's assume that he's skilled enough to take me down and get me vulnerable. Well at that point there's not much I can do as "preparation" other than make sure I keep going to Martial Arts and charge my taser, both of which I should do anyways. Even if all else fails and some really bad shit does indeed happen to me/is going to happen to me.. There's not much someone can do to me that hasn't been done already except actually kill me which is weirdly eroticized to me anyways...

*Ahem* I guess the point of all of this is that being scared when you get creepy emails is stupid, block them and do what you can to tighten your security. Being scared when you get creepy calls is stupid, block them. Being scared when someone leers at you through your window is stupid, bean whoever it is on the head and call the cops. But being scared when someone breaks into your place and tries to kidnap you is legit, except when what you're really afraid of is that they'll see you without make up on... *Ahem...*

So if you're being stalked, creeped on, made to feel uncomfortable or what have you, don't obsess over it. Do what you can to make sure your information and space is secure and move on. Worrying about the what ifs will drive you crazy and trying to make everything perfectly safe will never happen. Living be default is dangerous, don't let someone's rude reminder of that ruin your day.

Some Thoughts on Inner Strength and Pro-Domme

I love my job. There's such a thrill that comes along with meeting someone new and unknown for bdsm play. What role will he want to play? Will he like me? Will we get along? Will we connect well during play? It completes me like nothing else but it is a hardship at times. To be a dominatrix, a cam girl, an escort or any other kind of sex worker takes the strength to take on the deepest desires and darkest fantasies of a stranger and to make their wildest dreams come true without devaluing, compromising and destroying yourself. to do that well takes an immense amount of strength and the willingness to be vulnerable.
Let me get one thing straight, I am not being paid to be a hole. I am being paid to be myself and use my own passions to make the fantasies of others come true. By coming out and saying "this is who I am. I'm kinky as hell, I like watching others enjoy themselves and even though we don't know if we have chemistry, I'm willing to accept money to meet you and take the chance that you aren't going to rape, kill, stalk, harass or otherwise try to hurt me."
Every part of that statement is a challenge in and of itself and on a day to day basis I don't know how I manage to trust the world so much to accept so much of who I am and more surprisingly still, to want to spend time with me so badly that they'll pay me for the experience.
The days that I expose the most of myself are the days that I excel the most and the days that my clients and friends enjoy the most and knowing that gives me the strength to keep allowing new people to see very intimate sides of me.
Who am I intimately anyways? We all wear disguises in some shape so that we can avoid being hurt but what kind of things are lurking underneath that?

On the exterior, I'm strong, I'm focused but goofy, I'm eager to watch other enjoy themselves and sometimes off the cuff things fall out of my mouth.
Under that... I like causing pain and I love watching people want me.. desire my touch and crave more of me. But it's complicated because although I love to please, I love to deny even more. To watch my victim squirm uncomfortably with delight and disappointment. Sometimes it's hard to keep them on the hook after saying no but that's my favorite part.
Sometimes, I'm insecure like most people. I fear that I'm over valuing myself and driving other away because of that. I'm worried that I'm not good enough, skilled enough, competent enough or intelligent enough to pull off the plans I'm trying to release to the world. Although I have this uncanny ability to just make things work and some weird sort of luck/magic seems to follow me where ever I go. Maybe I'm just really good at handling crisis/stressful situations. That must be it; Sometimes I act like a total tit in a social situation and I shove my foot in my mouth while being a complete ass. Sometimes literally. Yet I manage to be suave enough to not absolutely abhor most people. Despite the fact that these situations I create embarrass and horrify me, I can't seem to stop doing them. Regardless of whether or not I've had something to drink.

Deepest of all... I'm afraid that I'll become a spinster who gets emotional and social fixes from work instead of reaching out to other people. Work is easier. Want to know why? I know the other people involved like me, at least a bit. If they don't, I don't hear from them and that's that. Rejection is scary because still at some base level, my value as a person is tied up in the approval of others.
But you know what? It doesn't have to be. I'm imperfect and I'm okay with that.

What really counts? I try. I give life and experiences as much as I can and then I push myself a little bit harder and that makes me proud, even when I fail miserably.

Send me ideas for FREE Videos! Also, a picture of me touching myself.

I've decided to start making some free content that I'm going to post through some sharing sites and some on youtube (no nudity, obviously.)
So that leaves you with the task of providing me with ideas!

If you have any questions, comments, suggestions or ideas of videos for me, please leave a comment here or send me an email: rubyenraylls@gmail.com

Looking forward to hearing from you!